LIGHTEN-UP!
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  • About Me
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  • 💥 Sparks n Dandelions

  Because of YOU  ...
      i Love What I Do !​​​







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I have been a Wedding Officiant since 2005
 I Love Creating Unique Marriage Ceremonies...
 with couples...
every Ceremony is Unique... just like they are!

 A Marriage Ceremony should be all about a couple's Love  
  That is why we have 4-5 meetings to create and collaborate.
 Couples get to know me.. and I get to know every couple  
This is why every marriage Ceremony is
​Personal, unique & authentic 


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 Your marriage Ceremony ...
Is all about You

 Your Way

My Job is to write what you Love... From the Heart
You will have some Fun, some Tears and a lot of Joy

more about how we create your ceremony
Check my Calendar for open dates ​
read □‍❤️‍□‍□Notes from my couples ​  
Contact & Connect. Let's meet - No Charge/No Obligation
                                                                                                   
The 1st step is to set up a time for you to meet me.
 If you have any questions before we meet... that is OK!  Any Questions are always OK anytime :)! 
We will meet by  FaceTime and in my home for our last meeting-if you so choose... 

 This 1st meeting is No Charge/No Obligation and lasts for about 45-60 min.
 We talk about how we would create your ceremony together to make it unique and personal.
​                                                                      Your Ceremony ~ Your Way!  
Click to read a gallery of  👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨​ notes from My Couples,
 You can get a  glimpse of why
your Marriage Ceremony
... is so important  
​A Treasured Memory:)!!

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                 I am an INSPIRATIONAL Story teller -
                            I ask and listen to YOU...
                               What's Your Story?

            Let's put some what if and why not into your story...
                                               Together
      'See' a different point of view... Let's 'SEE' outside the box
                                               together

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                                 'Lighten-UP!' is...


''Lighten-UP!'
 Be You~It's good for you!


   'Lighten UP!'  
  Give Yourself A Break
Choose to 'SEE' YOU
(Sense Energy+ Evolve)


Did you know...
 when you are not happy
when you are not loving life
You are just off your path
So... How to get back on your path?
Baby steps!


  you are here on this earth 
in this life...
to Be You - that's it

so stop... 
 notice - take a small step - in a new direction
make a change that feels right
Little things lead to big things
One change changes everything 

Imagine....
If your focus was
- on what you love 
- what feels right
- what feels good
- letting go of expections on yourself + others
- to see challenges as your school of wisdom
- joy . . living minding your own business .hmmmm
- realizing little things are your big things



This is  

''LIGHTEN-UP!'
 
BE YOU~IT'S GOOD FOR YOU!
​You can do this! Baby Steps....

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  click here to connect
​Let's 'see' if we can make a diffeence... together
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​" Sparks & Dandelions " are... 

Messages from the Universe.. 
We all get them  
They help US 'SEE' Our Way more Clearly
 Sparks  Remind and Ignite Your Imagination
Sparks Remind You What You Already Know... Who You Truly Are

 
Sparks remind us to 'Lighten UP!'
To Give yourself a break
   'SEE' That Life's Challenges didn't happen to you - They were FOR YOU
 
Imagine an amazing Surprise. 
when you take 1 new step in a new direction
  a new way - something you feel right and good about


the definition of  Spark:  
"Sparks Can Cause a revelation that  
 Opens the eyes and the senses."   
 
How do Your Sparks get to You?
Someone says something to you at the Grocery Store
A song comes on that speaks to your Heart,
A line in a movie or TV Show stand out to YOU.
They are seemingly random things.. that are truly there for you 

  
Dandelions are weeds... in our lives for many different reasons...
AND... they are nature's detox plant!


  Listen 
Respect, value, honor & empower yourself.
Feel Good :)!!
BE TRUE to who YOU are!



REMEMBER THIS!
The Universe is Always working in Your Favor. 
Being true to yourself Is a Process...  a Practice... that can be automatic.
Practice what you like and love so you like and love more
Be Patient with yourself.
  Remind yourself to 'Lighten-UP!'
Imagine Trusting your connection with the Universe.
Imagine Following your 'SPARKS' 
The Universe is always in communication with You.
with SPARKS and DANDELIONS
Your Wise Self is  Your Inner Guidance system... always talking to you
You  know THE WAY... YOUR WAY!
When Enough is Enough...It time to REMEMBER...MORE!
The Universe Always honors your choices.  
So be patient + mindful in making Your New Choices.
The Universe is Always waiting to Open Doors 'with' YOU..
Imagine... Wonderful Surprises!!

​
THIS IS  
''LIGHTEN-UP!'
 BE YOU~IT'S GOOD FOR YOU!

 

   ​Because of You
 I Love what I Do !   

 Weddings Your Way
Your Event - Your Way !

My Goal is
 everything will be
​ More than You Hoped For

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When we Talk..
 I  listen closely & carefully with Heart,
To what is Most important to You.
What You Want.
 
What means the most to You
on your Special Day..
 
 When we Talk
we get to know each other 
So that Your love-magic  happens in 
​Wonder-full ways...
 
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​" Our Lives are not Our own "
Little things can touch other 
in Big Ways.

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We Get to Know Each Other

I Listen + Reflect
To How You Feel
What You ​Think
I Ask questions

Share what I Hear
​ in My Heart of Hearts

We have: 
Conversations w/ some Fun 

 
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Make Contact

We schedule a 'let's meet'
so you know what you can expect from Me.
And To tell me
 more about Your Special Day

 

How 'WE' create
Your Unique Marriage Ceremony
or Your Event

​ For Me... My goal
is for you Event to BE MORE
​ than you expected... 


You must Let me know the Date & Location 

​I will reply to you
within 24 - 72 hours.  
​  

​Your Way !

What's Important

A to have a good connection  
​To make time  to know what is important to you while we get to know each other.

You will be surprised that it doesn't take long for me to get you... your vibe:)
 I have 30 years of experience. 30 years listening...
 I will know and understand what is important to You!  
I pay attention to the little things = IMPORTANT!
         
  We have fun creating and collaborating  

To be amazed and excited in what 'WE' have created together!

   
click here to inquire
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follow  Sparks n Dandelions
 Be surprised with Reminders    
   that may feel they have been written just for YOU !
  
Encouragement
 ​Trust and Follow Your Heart

 Imagine A New Way ... Your Way!
​Be True to who you truly are...




  Sparks & ​Dandelions are... 


Messages from the Universe. Messages are reminders and are always...  
trying to  Remind You to 'Lighten-UP!'
Practice paying more attention so that YOU 'SEE' Your Sparks... more.
 
No Stress & No Worries....
Who YOU truly are is a Life Long Practice... for everyone.
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​To Quote Bagger Vance "A Game That Can Never Be Won... Only Played"


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  • 💞 Your Ceremony - fees & process
  • 💞Notes from My Couples💞
  • 💞Calendar 🗓
  • 💌 Contact & Connect
  • About Me
  • 💥 Lighten UP! Inspirational Speaker
  • 💥 Sparks n Dandelions