I have been a Wedding Officiant since 2005
 I Love Creating Unique Marriage Ceremonies... with couples...
every Ceremony is Unique... just like they are!

 A Marriage Ceremony should be all about a couple's Love  
  That is why we have 4-5 meetings to create and collaborate.
 Couples get to know me.. and I get to know every couple  
This is why every marriage Ceremony is
​Personal, unique & authentic 

 Your marriage Ceremony ...
Is all about You
 Your Way
My Job is to write what you Love... From the Heart
You will have some Fun, some Tears and a lot of Joy

                                                                                                   
The 1st step is to set up a time for you to meet me.
 If you have any questions before we meet... that is OK!  Any Questions are always OK anytime :)! 
We will meet by  Facebook, Skype, Zoom, in my home... whatever works for You!

 This meeting is No Charge/No Obligation and is for about 45-60 min.
 We talk about how we would create your ceremony together to make it unique and personal.
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​                                                                That is why I say Your Ceremony ~ Your Way!  


 I have made a gallery of  Thank You notes from My Couples,
 Hopefully my couples can give you a glimpse of  how & why
your Marriage Ceremony... is such an important part of  your Special Day..
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 Inspirational Speaker
''Lighten-UP!'
Is...... 
 Being You~Your Way!

 'Lighten UP!' Is : 
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  Give Yourself A Break
Choosing to SEE(Sense.Energy.Evolve)
  Choosing to Be You More 
 Your Own Unique Process  
 Your Purpose 
A Practice
Simple and Surprising

Being You... more
 


 
​" Sparks & Dandelions " 
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  Messages from the Universe.. 
We all get them  
They help US 'SEE' Our Way more Clearly
 Sparks  Remind and Ignite Your Imagination
Sparks Remind You What You Already Know... Who You Truly Are
 
'Lighten UP!'

Give yourself a break
Accept Your Life  
   'SEE' That Life's Challenges didn't happen to you - They were FOR YOU
 Accept 'It Is What It Is'
 

SEE  what You Love. What excites You.
PRACTICE to Let Go of What Does’t.. 
SEE that It can be Fun & Good to change Your Mind 
 SEE  Your Life more as an Adventure - 
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 You are Here to Be You!
You are Here to Be Challenged... It's part of the deal.
Your Purpose? Is to Be You More... It takes a Lifetime of Practice... for Everyone!

  Sparks  
Can Cause a revelation that  
 Opens the eyes and the senses.   
We all get them ~   
 Did you SEE it. Get it. Understand it?  

How do Sparks get to You?
Someone says something to you at the Grocery Store
A song comes on that speaks to your Heart,
A line in a movie or TV Show stand out to YOU.
They are seemingly random things.. that are for you to 'SEE'!
 
 
Dandelions are...
 Stress - Your SOS call.  
Something is happening in your Heart/Emotions/Senses..
SEE Your Challenge and SEE a New View of its Purpose...
Could it Be that it is Time? You are Ready to 'Lighten-UP!' ? 

YES.... If you are here... YES You Are!
 
This is good to know!
SOS Calls (Stages Of Stress)
There are  4 Stages 
           
Stage 1.. Digressed.
You feel off. Meaning you are off... a little check-IN with yourself!
 Ask Yourself What is going on with me? Take Time to Pause. Be Patient. Listen.Write it Down.
  Or... You go to 
 
 Stage 2..Stressed
Now something is affecting your level of Peace of Mind. of Happiness
                              CHECK-IN with Yourself!
What is my Stress/Challenge. What Can I CHANGE or CHOOSE TO Feel differently ?
Or You Go To

 Stage 3. Distress - Double stressed.
The State of your Mind.Body.Emotions.... is Affected. 
 Sleep is affected.Your Health. Your Well-Being.Your Happiness
ALL AFFECTED... EVERYTHING IS CONNECTED
or You Go To

Stage 4. CRISIS.  
IF Nothing is Changed. Acknowledged. Accepted
A crisis will come and force you to Make a Change!   

BECAUSE...

The Universe is Always working in Your Favor. 
One Thing Always Leads To Another
Make One Change Everything changeS
Little Changes Lead to the Big Changes
Everything is a Process. Practice.Patience
 It Takes Time. You didn't get here overnight... sure an overnight miracle would be nice.
But, there is something important happening & changing in You. Be proud of yourself - You are Choosing You!!
​You are choosing to 'Lighten-UP!'

 

   ​Because of You
 I Love what I Do !   

 Weddings Your Way
Your Event - Your Way !

My Goal is
 everything will be
​ More than You Hoped For

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When we Talk..
 I  listen closely & carefully with Heart,
To what is Most important to You.
What You Want.
 
What means the most to You
on your Special Day..
 
 When we Talk
we get to know each other 
So that Your love-magic  happens in 
​Wonder-full ways...
 
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​" Our Lives are not Our own "
Little things can touch other 
in Big Ways.

We Get to Know Each Other

 Read 
Reflect
Feel
​Think
Ask questions
Share
 Respond
Comment
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Make Contact

We schedule a 'let's meet'
so you know what you can expect
To tell me more about You. 
 
You... Your Vibe is the Key to:

Your Unique Marriage Ceremony

 Your Successful Event...
the one your people walk away from
​with more than you expected... 

Let me know the Date & Location 

​I will reply to you
within 24 - 72 hours.  
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Making a Difference
​Your Way !

What's Important
for the best...unique
​Ceremony or Event
​and how it happens 



A great connection between us. To make time for me to know what is important to you by getting to know each other. You will be surprised that it doesn't take long for me to get you... your vibe:) because I  I have 30 years of experience. 30 years listening...  I will know and understand what is important to You!   I pay attention to the little things. Because the little things always lead to the big things.
         
Then We 'Lighten UP!'  We have fun creating and collaborating the best Ceremony or Event we can imagine:)!